When people talk about their lips, the conversation often turns to size. But what usually makes lips look natural is balance: how the upper and lower lip relate to each other, and how both sit with the rest of the face. Here is what that means in practice.

The parts of the lips

• The border: the edge where the lip meets the skin, which gives the lips their outline
• The cupid’s bow: the curved “M” shape at the top of the upper lip
• The philtrum: the two vertical ridges between the nose and the upper lip
• The corners: where the lips meet at each side, which affect whether the mouth looks neutral, upturned or downturned at rest

Upper and lower lip

In many faces, the lower lip is naturally fuller than the upper lip. This is a general observation rather than a rule, and it varies with ethnicity, age and individual features. Lips that look “right” on one person can look out of place on another.

The rest of the face matters

Lips are seen in context. The width of the mouth relative to the nose and eyes, the projection of the chin, and the shape of the jaw all change how the lips read, especially in profile. Sometimes a concern that seems to be about the lips is really about overall facial balance.

How lips change over time

With age, lips can lose some fullness and definition, the border can soften, and fine vertical lines can appear above the upper lip. Sun exposure and smoking can make these changes more noticeable.

Everyday lip care

• Use a lip balm with SPF, and reapply it outdoors
• Stay hydrated, and avoid licking or picking at dry lips
• If you smoke, stopping helps your lips and the skin around them

Bringing reference photos

Photos can help you explain what you like, whether that is a defined border or a softer look. A good practitioner will talk honestly about what is and is not realistic for your features, and will tell you if they do not recommend a change.

Read more about our lip shape and balance consultations, or book a time to talk it through.

This article is general information only and is not medical advice. Whether any procedure is suitable for you can only be decided after an individual consultation and assessment with a registered health practitioner. All procedures carry risk.